As I sit down to write this post, I wonder how many people actually read what I say. Do people learn anything, do my experiences really matter or make a difference? Since I write this blog purely for myself I guess the answer to that question doesn’t really matter. However, it still doesn’t curb my curiosity. I wonder how many of my friends really know my deepest most intimate thoughts. I do put them out there for anyone and everyone to read, but I still wonder.
Anyways, I wish I could tell you that I’m this amazing fantastic Godly person who is on the path to perfection, but that would be a lie. I’m human and no where near being perfect. I often feel like I should write amazing profound things in my blog, but then again, this is for me and God not anyone else. Lately I have been pulled in so many directions. Let’s see if I can touch on what’s been happening these past few weeks.
1. Re-Branding: I recently attended the MJ2Day Photography Workshop. I won’t go into too much detail because it would take over this entire post, but I learned way more information than I bargained for. I have been wanting to re-vamp my photography business for quite some time, but I wanted to wait until after this workshop to make sure I was headed in the right direction. To make a long story short, the workshop helped me see that re-branding needed to be the next step in my business. I hired Rosemary Watson as my graphic designer and she and I have been working on my logo for a couple weeks now. It really has taken more time and energy than I thought. I’m constantly thinking about it and exchanging texts/e-mails narrowing down designs. It’s pretty exhausting. After the logo will come new website/blog design. So this process if far from over. It’s exciting for sure, but taking a toll on my mental health 🙂
2. Travel Plans: Travis won a travel voucher some time ago from work and it’s a pretty large chunk of change. We can use the voucher on airfare, hotel and transportation anywhere in the world. I’m sure you can imagine the possibilities. They are endless. So when my mind isn’t on my photography and logo designs I have been re-searching and exchanging phone calls and e-mails with our travel agent trying to come up with ideas of where to go. In case your curious, we finally decided to go to Cancun for 5 days at the all inclusive Gran Caribe 5 Star Resort & Spa!! Travis and I are absolutely ecstatic for a Scarlett-free Vacation. Not that we don’t love our 19 month old daughter to death, but we haven’t been on a vacation without her since she was born, so we are excited. I know some people don’t go on vacations minus kids until they are old and grown, but that doesn’t work for our family!! Travis and I value our time together without her and we will take full advantage whenever we can 🙂 I think all couples should do the same!
3. Pampered Chef Business: I have also been devoting a lot of time to my Pampered Chef business. I’m making fantastic income, so I need to invest in my business to keep the paychecks coming. It’s been a bit of a challenge to balance everything, but I really enjoy what I do! At one of my past shows, a guest told me during checkout that she could tell that I loved my job and she she thought I had definitely found my niche’. What an amazing compliment from someone who doesn’t even know me. That totally made me so happy!
4. My Family: For anyone who is married you know that cultivating that marriage is a job in and of itself. When you’re single it’s easy to do what you want and spend your time and money however you choose but when you add a spouse into the mix you not only have someone else’s opinion to consult at all times, but you have to spend time & energy everyday keeping that relationship healthy. Add kids into the mix and that job becomes even more difficult, draining more mental and physical energy than you ever thought possible. So if my mental energy was already exhausted with my photography, travel plans and pampered chef add two more people into the mix, and you can see why I’m feeling slightly overwhelmed.
I’m not sure if you can see where I’m going with this, but when you have too much going on in your life, it’s inevitable that other areas of your life begin lacking. Since I’m always honest in my blog posts, I have to say that my quiet time with God has been lacking. I still read the bible most every night, but since I read it on my phone it seems less personal. I would like to start taking out my bible and reading the chapters in my actual bible. I feel like when I read on my phone there is a huge disconnect. It doesn’t feel as real or as intimate I’m also reading scripture when I’m in bed and ready to sleep so I’m reading quickly just to complete the verses and check them off as opposed to really mediating and letting the words sink in. Does anyone else feel like this when they read the bible? It’s more of a thing to check off that you know you should do. You want to feel like a good person so you do it out of habit but not with the right motive. I would really like this to change. I desperately want to know and grow closer with God, but the desire is not enough. I need to actually make a change. There has to be a plan put into place or good intentions will never be enough.
The one thing that I do like about the bible app on my phone is that I can bookmark verses really easily. Then when I have some free time, or when I’m sitting down to write my blog posts I can check back through my bookmarks and find verses that stood out to me. I just finished reading the book of Romans a couple days ago and I had bookmarked quite a few passages. I will include one of my favorites below.
Those who think they can do it on their own end up obsessed with measuring their own moral muscle but never get around to exercising it in real life. Those who trust God’s action in them find that God’s Spirit is in them-living and breathing God! Obsession with self in these matters is a dead end; attention to God leads us out into the open, into a spacious, free life. Focusing on self is the opposite of focusing on God. Anyone completely absorbed in self ignores God, ends up thinking more about self than God. That person ignores who God is and what he is doing. And God isn’t pleased with being ignored.
Romans 8: 5-8
These few verses are incredibly profound. The bible is full of lots of words and concepts that are hard for me to understand, but when I come across verses like these, there is no room for misconception. The verses that resonate with me are these exact verses. The ones that are so plainly black & white. I find myself so often focused only on myself and things of this world. I mean it’s the easiest path. It’s easier to go with the flow of society and focus on me, me, me. The real challenge is turning around and heading upstream, against all the “normal” ways of life. No wonder so many people live for themselves. It’s definitely the easier path…IN THE BEGINNING. Think of it like this. We are all is our own boats. Some of us choose to go downstream. It’s definitely the quicker route and usually satisfying short term, but then we inevitably go adrift. Possibly we run into some mud that slows us down, steer our boat in the wrong direction or completely get stuck. Since we are trying to do everything on our own we don’t have any help. People just wave as they float on by. No one stops to help and we are pretty much on our own. We have to wait for someone else to bail us out…or maybe we are just there forever.
As a follower of Christ we need to get out of our boats, and head upstream looking for those boats who need our help. We rescue them and take them with us. Things may become difficult on the way, but we know that there is an eternal reward at the end. We know that life on Earth is not the end. We want to spend eternity with Jesus and the only way to get there is to follow in his footsteps and go against what society deems as “normal”.
Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice by dying on the cross so that we could be saved and eventually be in heaven with God. Without Jesus we could never enter heaven because God and Sin cannot co-exist. Which direction is your boat headed? Maybe your waiting for someone to come and rescue your boat. Maybe you’re not sure what to do. If that’s you I encourage you to jump in my boat and head upstream with me!! I’m not perfect and my boat sometimes slips downstream, but as I’ve mentioned before being a follower of Christ is a forever journey. You have to make a daily choice to follow him. If your boat is heading downstream beware of those people who will keep pushing you in that direction. Turn your boat around and forever let your life be changed.
But now that you have found you don’t have to listen to sin tell you what to do, and have discovered the delight of listening to God telling you, what a surprise! A whole, healed, put-together life right now, with more and more of life on the way! Work hard for sin your whole life and your pension is death. But God’s gift is real life, eternal life, delivered by Jesus, our Master.
Romans 6:22-23